Please be mindful, this is a family event.  Children will likely be present, and some of our bereaved parents are expecting their rainbow babies.  We all know this can be hard for those of us who have endured the loss of a baby/child, but try to keep in mind, that we have all experienced that same angst when we see random pregnant women or young children.  We, sadly, but thankfully, are all in this together. Oftentimes, it is easier to endure when it is a person we know "gets it."